Lq Lq Lq itibaren Kaszów, Polonya
I like her first book better. This one is basically a repetitive to Why Men Love Bitches(WMLB) but this one was written in lousy way. There is nothing new in this book. Its boring. In why Men Love Bitches (WMLV), I agree with her points almost 98% (2% points less because I do not agree about she telling women not to cook full course meal for men....Because for me, I'll do it, I cook what ever I want, no matter how hard or long it takes to cook what I want to cook, I cook because it makes me happy and I love it. So, who cares if my men dont appreciate it, because I cook it for my own happiness, at the first place). However, this book (WMMB) makes me sad....It seems that she tried to transform us, women, into some intolerant creatures who cant use her logical mind or even being practical....This book seems to cancel out all positive vibes I seeded into my soul which was driven by her first book. I was just broke up with my man when I first read her first book (WMLB), and it motivated me, that, with WMLB, I managed to get out of the blues in very short period. But her second book, this book (WMMB)....it makes me feel otherwise....and i feel weak. YES...its true, we have to be affirmative, we have to have pride, we should not depends our happiness on men, we cant tolerate or take BS from men, ...but sometimes, we just have to flow with the blow. It stressed me out, by reading this book,it kindda makes me lost, that I can no longer makes my/the right decision. We women, we have this extra aerial that allow us to sense that something is wrong, sometimes we need to follow our gut, unfortunately this gut we have are not usually obeying her principles in WMMB. Thats why women are special. My advice, DONT BE WEAK, BUT DONT BE TOO STUBBORN EITHER. Love yr man, but love yourself too, at least as equally as you love your men. Never love yourself lesser, and never be selfish too.